Your home should be a reflection of you. it should portray your values, as well as be your hub for peace.
If there’s something at home that bothers you, you can’t feel that mental safety.
Sometimes its the art on the walls. Sometimes it’s your wife or those beautiful little versions of yourself that cause no problems ever.
We think “that’s the way it is” way too fucking much, and “learn to live with it”.
Things can change. Maybe giving little Timmy up for adoption isn’t good in the long run, but realizing WHY Timmy is constantly causing you to feel the need to put him up for adoption makes you responsible for fixing it, so do that.
Once you have a home you feel comfortable in you are free to focus on yourself without distractions in your atmosphere. in this space, you have infinite potential.